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TAALIM PER BANDISH

Assalam oalaikum,
Jahan ek taraf waaldain apne bachon ko behtereen taleem de ker unhe kisi qabil banaana chahte hain wahin dusri taraf kuch aise aziyat pasand log bhi hote hain jo dusron ke bachon ki taaleem per bandish lagwa dete hain. Aisa karwaane ke piche kai wajuhaat ho sakte hain jaise ke victim ke waaldain ko ma’ashre mein zaleel karwaana ya yeh darna ke victim kahin padh likh ker kamyaab na ho jaae. Kuch log is dar se bhi is qism ki bandish lagwaate hain ke kahin victim unki apni aulad se zyada taraqqi na kar le. Ma’ashare mein badhti hui hasad aur khudgarzi logon ko is qism muqaable bazi  karne per uksaati hai.
Is qism ki bandish khas taur se zaheen bachon per lagwaai jaati hai jin ki taleem ke maidan mein achi kaar-kardagi dekh ker log jal ker un ke piche pad jate hain. Us ka nateeja yeh hota hai ke jo bacha zaheen aur padhne likhne ka shauqeen hota hai who achanak padhaai se bezaar ho jaata hai. Who padhne ke bajaae fuzool ke kaamon mein waqt zaaye karne lagta hai. Raaton ko jaag jag ker imtehaan ki tayyari karne wala taalib-e-ilm imtehan se pahle bhi padhaai se ghaafil rahne lagta hai
Zaahir hai key yeh baat waaldain ke liye fikr ka baais ban jaati hai. Ab yeh waaldain per munhasir karta hai ke who is surat e haal mein kya karte hain. Ho sakta hai ke who bache ko daant dapat ker padhne per aamadah karna chaahein. Lekin aise maamlon mein zor zabardasti se koi faeda nahin ho sakta hai kyunki victim khud padhne se nahin bhaag raha hota hai balki us ko jadu ke zariye aisa karna per majbur kiya jaraha hota hai. Jo bacha khud hi claas mein awwal aane ki koshish karta ho hamesha who jaanbujh ker apni taalim ki taraf se laaparwahi kyun dikhaayega?
Aise mein laazmi hai ke waaldain bache ko zimmedar thehraane ke bajae us ki asil pareshani ko samjhein. Agar bacha roohani ilaj se mehroom rah gaya to phir us ko qaabu mein laana bahut mushkil hai. Lehaaza kisi bhi ache bhale shakhs ke mizaaj mein achanak aai kisi tabdeeli ko dekh ker hairat zaahir karna hi kaafi nahin hai. Yeh baat samjhni bhi zaruri hoti hai ke kahin us tabdeeli ke piche kisi qism ke jadu ka hath to nahin hai.  
Duaaon mein yaad rakhein
Amel Soname
amel_soname@yahoo.com

25 comments:

sadia said...

AOA

Respected Amel sb,

Umeed hai k app theek hun gain. mera ek bohat serious masla hai. App kahan rehtay hain Pakistan main yah India main ? Aur app say kasay rabta kia ja sakta hai?

Main bohat prehshan hun. please mughy jawab zaroor dain.

Shukria

Anonymous said...

sir mera Bara Bhai 5 mahine se bistar per
hai. uska har test kra lia hai, jo jo bhi doctors ne btaye hain. TB ,Malariya, Tified, or bohat sari dawaiyan bhi de chuke hain per usko koi farq nahi par raha.
raat hote hi usko sakht bukhaar ho jata hai. Naak shadeed band ho jata hai
, paon me or pure jisam me dard bhi hota hai..
bukhar bhi chek krane per 102 ya zyada kam hota rehta hy...
hum sab uski waja se bohat tention me hain.. ap ka page dekha bohat sari
mufeed batein hain.. plz apki bohat bari neki ho gi or hum sab bhi apko Dua
den ge sir ap iska koi hal nikalen...
Allah apko or apke Ahle Khana ko Shad Baad rakhe.

amir said...

Janab 2011 or 2012 aik Sahab sey mulaqaat ka itefaq huwa Jo apney apko amil batata tha uska naam Mohsin walid ka naam ilyas apna naam pukarney main zeeshan aur shan usko mainey apney Gher main 15 din rehney ko jaga di khaney piney ko diya dua ka kaha key chalo amil aur Hafiz batata hey phir wo mager ushi shaks ney jadoo laga ker meyra pura karobar samjhain rok deya phir ph pey baat huwe to kehney laga Pakistan ao get to luch ilaj ho sakeyga kala jadu ka mamla hey apkey dadyal walo ney jadu kerwaya hey main Pakistan chala gaya new Karachi serjahani main eska Gher hey waheen esney apna Astana banaya huwa hey esney mujhey aur meyrey chotey bhai jiska naam bhi Mohsin hey bari bari pehley mujhey aur phir meyrey bhai ko beytha ker 40 din ka chila lagaya us waqt samjh nahi aya mager shayad koi hamzad ka amal kia kuch samjh nahi ata tha BS majboor that der aur khoof ki kaifyat tari thi phir mazaron key chaker lagwai kafi shirk kerwai zaberdasti ki hamney apney tor pey ALLAH sey dua mangi key essey jaan choot jai kuch tweez deye they esney pehnney ko sab wapis kerdeya esney Jo kuch paisey mangey ham ney deye they amal key naam pey aur kuch kala bakrey bhi laker chat pey bandhta tha mukhtaser samjh sirf itna aya key ye shakhs Allah aur rasool ke naam pey logo ko beywaqoof banata hey aur kala jado aur sifli aur jinnat sey kam leyta hey khud jadu laga ker logo ko ilaj key naam pey loot ta hey

phir main aur meyra bhai Malaysia agey yahan aker kuch na chal saka sab karobar Matti hogaya rehney khaney piney key lalay pergey kuch din tak ye rabtey main tha eski baton sey lagta tha key chahta hey key esko ham Malaysia bulwalain naraz hota tha apney taweezaat wapis kerkey ghalti kerdi kisi kam ka nahi chora Gher bar sab tabah o berbaad kerdeya maan paap pereyshaan bhai pereyshaan meyra nikah huwa tha wo bhi khula hogai halaat ki wajah sey

Allah ney karam kia aik Hafiz hazrat Jo key amil bhi hain unhoney yahan hamara ilaj kia unkey mutabiq hamnmain jin they Jo key unhoney ayat e shifa key taweezat key zerye sey nikal deye namaz roza sab ki pabandi ki aur itna time nikal gaya nokri ki mazdoriayn ki sab kam kiye waqt ko nikala

Ab bhi Zara sa bhi kam set hota hey wo amil jin sey jado lagwata hey aur ham dono bhai pereyshani main ajataey hain Sara kam Jo bhi set huwa hota hey hawa hojata hey yahan waley buzrug batatey hain hamarey hamzad uskey tabey hain

Ab masla ye hey key main Janna chahta hun key kiya hamarey hamzad us shaks ney tabey kiye huwe hain hamari zindagiyan berbaad kerkey us jahil ko kia mila

Ab ager main hamzad ko taskheer ka amal kerna chahon to kersakta hun ?

Berai meherbani reply kerain aur koi bhi maloomaat kerna chahain to puchain meherbai hogi

Allah apko ajer daingey

Hameed said...

Assalamualaykum

Dear brother my wife and I think we are suffering from the spell of separation and we're planning on making the ruqya water you suggested only one thing that is not clear in your instruction is reading surah nasty and Fala 11 times and you say Ali 41 times what do you mean by Ali do you mean surah ali imran or ??? Your help would be much appreciated. ...jazzakallah for your help may allah reward you for your trouble....

Walaykum Salam
Hameed

salma said...

Assalamualiakum

Mera nam salma hai aur mera dost hai o mujhe shadi karna chahta tha abi badal gaya hai kyun k us k piche kisi aurat jadu kara rahi hai mujhe b usey b . ek to mere abu nahi my khud kamati hun kitan paise kharach kardia lakin koi sahi kam nahi kar raha bandish lagadi hai o aurat my thoradti hun to aur lagadeti hai bandish nahi toti agar toti to aur lagaye jata hai my aur paise kharach karne mere pas paise nahi hein us sey agar my shadi ny hoti to my marjaongi so ap mere liay maddad karo allah ap ko iss ka ajar dega zaroor my os aurat ku hatana chahti hun mujhe sureh fill padhne ki ijatzat do taky my o larkey se nika kar sako

ap ku allah pak ka us k rasool mere aqha ka vasta meri madad karo please please.

shumaila said...

Mera name shumaila he me 1aprill me hui mare shadi hyderabad me hui mare mare husband hyderabad me rahyte he un ke padish 14august ko hui hamare shadi 2 mai ko hui hum dono ke ban nahi rahi he bat talak tak poch gai he aap batay kya hum par kala jado karaya he please batay

Aisha said...

Assalaamwakium bhai ,

Mera Naam Aisha hai and aaj hi apka post read kiya maine,

maine apse pehle bhi raabta karne ki koshish ki thi lekin aapka koi jawaab nahi aya

AAP BAS yuh samajh lo badi mushkil main ho Allah se raat aur di dua bhi karti hu

11 saal ke baad shohar ne dubai bulaya aur pichle 8 mahine se berozgaar hu
mere sasuural aur gao main bahot hi jyada jadoo tona chalta hai
jiske wajah se zindagi abh mout se battar hogai hai
ek beti hai uska bhi kharch pura nahi karte mere shohar
bas itni buri tarah se kisi ke paache pagal hai wo larki un ke hi ghar ki hai
bas yu smajh lo wo mujhe bhi chorde agar unka bas chale tou

bhai kuch esi madad karde jisse mere halaat achin hojaye ya taweezat hi bhej de
kyuke main yaha sharing villa ke 1 room main rehti hu jou bohat choti hai jiski wajah se namaz bhi padna mushkil hojata hai

ghar se nikal nahi pati haath pair main dard bhara rehta hai
agar job ke liye dekhti hu tou neent tari hojai hai
koibhi kaam karne ki koshish karou to nahi hoti
ye mere saath saalou se ho raha hai koi bhi kaam karo hota nahi ya tou bohat mushilaat se hoti hai
yaha tak ke ye mail msg open karne ke liye bhi 15 20 min lag gaye
aap tou amil ho aap behtar jaan sakte hou ye sab kya hai
bhai aplease mere madad karain insaniyat ke naatay
agar aap ki koi charge lete hai tou please bole mujhse jou ban parega main karungi
badi mushil halaat ka samna kar rahi hu badi pareshaan ho
apko Allah ka wasta help kardey mere

main biohat dukhi hu
kai saalou se keel mohase ne mere zindagi azaab kardi abh
har cheez main nakamyabi ne main graduation kiya hir paise bachakar mba bhi kia aaj koi job nahi hai mere paas
2 saal se gharpar bethi hu apni zindagi pe rona ata hai mujhe
please bhai badi umeedou ke sath apko ye message kar rahi hu

mere liye koi tou amal karain ya tou kuch taweezat ke zariya
ALLAH APKO IS NAIKI KA AJR ZAROOR DEGA
AMEEN SUMA AMEEN

DUA MAIN YAAD RAKHA

vanshika said...

Sir ji mere pati ki xwife ne unke upper pata nahi kya kerwa diya ki ye ab mujhe or mere bachoo ko chodana chate hai jo insaan mere uper jaan chidakta tha ab hum dono ko ek dusre ki surat tak achi nahi lagti inki xwife ne mera makan bikwa diya meri sari jwellery girwi Padi hai koi upay batay

rizwana said...

Aslam u Alakum m bohat parshan hun mery pass Degree be h achi Taleem be par 2 saal say m jobless hun meri
shadi ka masla be h Rishty athy h par koi baat ni binti rishty meri phopo apny beathy ka rishta mangti thi par meri ammi ney nahi diya unko family issue thy kuh is ley meri phopo hum say Naraz h meri ammi ko shaq h k unhoney mery upper Jaado ya Bandsh ki h meri shadi na ho sir m bohat parshan hun mujhy ni patha k sach m phopo n kia h ya nahi mery upper koi Bandsh h ya nahi m Numaz be parhti hun 5 waqth ki dowa be karti hun m bohat parshan hun Allah ka wastha ap ko mery maslhy ka hal batny mujhy batny m kesy maloom karno k mery upper koi bandash ya jaado h mujhy sarf shaq h kia m shaq par sarf ap ka y amal sun sekthi hun m shukriya y m n download kiya h ap ki website say kia m is ko sun sekthi hun mujhy sarf shaq h k meri phopo n mery upper bandash karwi h ya jaado please mujhy jawab de jee ga shukriya

Anonymous said...

assalam o alaikaum

sir mera naam mubeen nizam hai aur jo main masla ap k samny rekh rha hun woh mery bary bhai k sath hai un ka naam azeem hai aur woh usa may rehty hain aur woh married hain aur aik beta b hai aur sir mery bhai ji shadi ko 9saal hogae hain aur woh bht pareshan hain q k un ki wife kisi hospital may job krti hain aur woh 4 month sy bhai k sath nhi reh rahi q k choti si bt pr larai hui thi un dono k bech aur jis ki wajh sy mery bhai ko police lay gae thi aur meri bhabi nay case krdia k unhen un k sath nhi rehna aur sir mera bhai rehna chata hai un k sath lekin jahan woh job krti hain wahan aik hindu doctor hai aur us nay meri bhabi ko double minded krdia hai aur woh us hindu pr dewani hui wi hain aur mera bhai sakht sardi may ghar sy bahar so rha hai 3 month sy q k usy allow nhi apni wife k sath rehny may aur woh bht roty hain k mera masla hal nhi ho rha aur ghr waly b pareshan hain ap plz kch aisa krden k woh bilkul thek thak ho jaen aur mery bhai k sath rehny k liye tayyar ho jaen aur apna case wapsi lay len aur us hindu doctor sy hamesha k liye contact khatm krdenq k bht dair ho rhi hai sir woh bht aziat may zindagi guzar rahy hain

usman said...

Slam sir
Mera nam usman hye sir masla yhe hye hum ghr waly koi b kam karna chyen us ma reqawat ati hye sam se masla yhe hye ke ma koi b kam krna chata hun wo nai hota job less hun ager jobb mil b jaye mera dil ni lagta sit ghr ma heer waqt ten rhti hue plz help me

Adeel said...


Assalamowalikum,

Meri shadi ka 4 month chal rha hy, shadi k ek month k bad se pareshanya start ho gai hain,
mjhe lagta hy hum husband wife ko nazar hy , is ko kis trhan khtam kiya jay.

saba said...

Hum 4 sisters hai abi thak ak ki b shadi nhe howi bohat sare wazaif kiye but still kuch b nhe howa.jobs k hawali se b education hai par kamyabi nhe mil rahe bothers aur sisters ab sub ki ak qesmath tou nhe hoti hum halal kathe hai 5 waqat ki nimaz,quran tilawat sub krthe hai sadqa kherath b pta nhi pir b.

deeba said...

Assalam0Alekum bahi hum bahot pareshan hien meri bahnji ko 3 month se problem hia pehle bachi par jinat behge jo hum ne 3.4 almon ke pass ja kar in jinat se nijat mili our ab7din bad bachi kii zuban band kar di hia 3, 4 din bamoshkil Ada lafz Ada karti thie aj bilkol hi nahi bol sakti bachi khod batati hia ke kohi urat hia jo meri shakl ke potlle ko soiyn chat hia our shakl oski dikhi nahi deti Plz hum bhot pareshan hien koch parhne keliye Mail kar den 3 month se soye nahi ALLAH pak apko is ka Ajar de Ameen

Anonymous said...

ap bata den iska matlab mere dost ke ghar ke sath kale bakre ka sar tha us ke sar par lemon pe aur uskibankon aur mon par soian lagi wi thin aur rat kobwo gayab ho gaya uske mn aur seengho par lal rangvlagavwa tha

owais said...

Assalam o alikum...mera name owais hai...ek larki a jo mujhse bht pyar karti a or mere ghar k situation aise he k me us se shadi nahi karsakta or ne he usko asra de sakta hun shadi ka q k kaisi ko dhokha nahi dena chahta me chahta hun mujhy aise wazifa batayen jis se woh mujhy bhol jaye or apni life me khush rahe ..or uper wala gawa a me yeh galat chez k liye nahi mang raha or na he maine us k sath kuch galat kiya ha plzz mujy koi asan wazifa or power full wazifa batayen jo jaldi asar ho jis se uski zindagi kharab na ho...jazzaqALLAH

Anum said...

aoa,

meri family bohat arse se balck magic ka shikar hai bohat ilaaj karwaya hai par kuch nai hua mere abu b bemar hain unka apna karobar tha wo b khatam hogya hum behno k rishte b nai hote hain financialy b masle hain barkat e nai hai please meri madad karden....

Anonymous said...

aoa,

meri family bohat arse se balck magic ka shikar hai bohat ilaaj karwaya hai par kuch nai hua mere abu b bemar hain unka apna karobar tha wo b khatam hogya hum behno k rishte b nai hote hain financialy b masle hain barkat e nai hai please meri madad karden....

zunaira. said...

ASsalam o alikaum i m zunaira... hmary ghr jado ky istrat hn buhat zada or jinnat b hain dekhy b hain pr jab tak parhai ki jy baatian wegra jalo theek ho jata ha jisy hi sb krna choro sb apni jaga dubra aa jaTa ha plzz mujhe koi haaL baatain amal b humy koi ni mila raha agr milta b ha to kaam nhi hoTa plzzz help me main ki bht sukar guzar hongi

Anonymous said...

hum 2 behne kam karte hain or abu ko job mili hai par zada arasa nai rehti or khatam hojati hai
unka apna arobar tha ab wo b nai hai
mere abu or ami or mere or meri behna mahrukh k sir mein bohat dard rehta hai meri to kai dafa bardsaht se bahar hojati hai
meri behan mahrukh k gurdo mein kafi dard hoti hai usko pathri b hogai thi
abu or ami ki kamar kafi dukhti hai
abu mjhe or chote bhai ismail ko gas ka bohat masla hai abu ko to bohat zada hai or mera stomach aksar kharab rehta hai consetapation rehti hai
mera jism ek dum se itna shadeed garam hojata hai k sekh nikalna shuru hojata hai sir bhari hojata hai
mjhe or ami ko ye b masla hai k hamara dil ek dum se taiz taiz dharakna shuru hojata hai
mjhe sans lene mein bohat dikat hoti hai khinch khinch k lena parta hai or khana khane mein b dikat hoti hai sans lia e nai jati hai
hum sb ghar wale bohat chir chire ho chuke hain ghar mein har waqt sbki larai rehti hai meri behan wajeeha ka gusa to had se zada hai or abu ka bhi
ami abu ki aksar larai rehti hain
mere face pe bohat dane nikalte hain balke usk nishan b bohat bure par chuke hue hain
mama or mere aksar dil mein ghabrahat rehti hai
bohat bey sakuni hai din katne ko parta hai dil karta hai kahi bhag jae
khushi k do pal mushkil se milte hain us mein bhi ajeeb besakuni or bechaini hai
abu namaz se kafi due hogae hain bohat kum hota hai k khd uth k parlen warna zada tar to nai prte hain
mjhe zukam or gala kharab ka bohat masla hai
ami ko thyroid hogya tha achanak se
mjhe ami ko abu ko or sister mahrukh ko bhi bohat bure khuwab ate hain
mere dil mein har wqt ajb sa dar or khof rehta hai
mere abu bohat zada sote hain or kam se bohat dur bhagte hain
abu ko koi kam nai yad rehta wo aksar bhul jate hain
mjhe apne se intni nafrat hoti ja rai hai
mjhe aksar apni ankhn k age blue ya ping colour daba nazar ana ya phir lines nazar ana ajeeb see
hum sb ghar walo ko aksar sena main jalan or tazabiyat hoti hai
mere hath aksar sun hojate hain
mjhe pehle khuwab mein murde nazar ate the bohat zada
hum sb ka aksar e jism sir or kandhe bhari rehta hai
mjhe ami or abu ko aksar chakar ate rehte hain
abu ko aksar khane khte e hichki lag jati hai
mjhe har kam mein jaldi pari hoti hai bs aisi hot hai k jald se jald e kam hojae
hamari zindagi mein koi discipline nai raha
aksar khuwab mein aisi lagta hai jese gir gae hain
mere kapre b gaib hue hain.....

rukhsar said...


Assalamoilakum,
Hazrat mera rishte ka bhot masla hai . Mera rishta nahi horaha. Pehle to log ate nahi hai or ate bhi hai to dekr jawab nai dete. Kabi kabi to pasand kar lete hai fir hanmi naa me badal jaTi hai. Jabi rishte ki baat hoti hai chid chida pan hOta hai ghar me jhagda karne ka man krta hai. Or rishta ata hai to shakal badal jati hai siyahi beronak chehera ho jata hai.

Hazrat maine kwabh me mere pichE kutta pada hai dekha. Kutte ko maine mere rishtedar k yaha dekha or wo mujhe daudate daudate ghar le aya or mere ghaR me pakhana kar k gaya.. Kabi dekti hu k kaatE wali jhad mujhe jakde hue hai.

Mere har kaam me rukawat hai . Job k lie b same han hote hote na hota haI or lagti b h to chut jati hai. Hazrat mujhe batae k akhir masla kya hai or koi wazifa batae.

samreen said...

Sir meri preshani yh h ki mere shohar jo ki mukh c bohat mohabbat krtey thy unpr koi amal krwadiya h or wo mujhe chord k chley gaye hain jb c gaye h na to baat ki h or ns krney ko tyaar h yahaa tk ki mera chehraa b nhi dekhna chahtey hain braye meharbaani koi madad tajeez krein jisse wo wapas aajayen or hum lhr c khus gwaar zindgi ji sakien

Iqra said...

Aslam o alaikum Mera name Iqra h mery Saath yeh masla h k main 6 saal se is bimari m mubtla ho balgham ana seany main dard hona saan ka masla or maedy main dard hona bukhar hona face par dane or colour din be din kala hona hatho paro ka sujna or Garm rehna parhai b chor Di h or jab test dety to sary lafz zehan se khatam ho Jany Kuch yaad Na rehta sir se hairs ka utarna period ki bandish h humny ilaj b krwaya lekin faraq arzi tor par perta phr ho Jata Kisi ne btaya k jadu krwaya Gia h ap k ghr mai jinnat h, Ap is ka koi Quran e Pak se tor btaye Jo permanent aram ajae ap ki Bari meharbani ho gi.

Anwar ulhaq Golarvi said...

Aslam o alaykum bhai mere bahut saray masail hain kafi saloon se main har kam main nakam ho raha abb meri aulad par bhi yehi masail banay huway hain.mera beta england taleem ke leye gia huwa hai,kafi universities main apply kia huwa hai lekin koi bhi jawab hi nahin aa raha,kam bhi kafi jaghoon par talash kar raha hai lekin kahin koi offer nahin halankay jatay hi 2 jaghoon par kam mila tha lekin wahan se farigh ho gia abb 4 month se koi kaam nahin,main khud bhi kafi arsay se berozgar hoon,main bahut jaghoon se pata karwaya sab bata detay hain ke jadu hai lekin ilaj ka faida nahin hota.app se request hai ke agar app kuch kar saktay hain tu please meri madad karain Allah app apna fazal farmay.Ameen

Anwar ulhaq Golarvi said...

Aslam o alaykum bhai mere bahut saray masail hain kafi saloon se main har kam main nakam ho raha abb meri aulad par bhi yehi masail banay huway hain.mera beta england taleem ke leye gia huwa hai,kafi universities main apply kia huwa hai lekin koi bhi jawab hi nahin aa raha,kam bhi kafi jaghoon par talash kar raha hai lekin kahin koi offer nahin halankay jatay hi 2 jaghoon par kam mila tha lekin wahan se farigh ho gia abb 4 month se koi kaam nahin,main khud bhi kafi arsay se berozgar hoon,main bahut jaghoon se pata karwaya sab bata detay hain ke jadu hai lekin ilaj ka faida nahin hota.app se request hai ke agar app kuch kar saktay hain tu please meri madad karain Allah app apna fazal farmay.Ameen

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