TAALIM PER BANDISH

Assalam oalaikum,

Jahan ek taraf waaldain apne bachon ko behtereen taleem de ker unhe kisi qabil banaana chahte hain wahin dusri taraf kuch aise aziyat pasand log bhi hote hain jo dusron ke bachon ki taaleem per bandish lagwa dete hain. Aisa karwaane ke piche kai wajuhaat ho sakte hain jaise ke victim ke waaldain ko ma’ashre mein zaleel karwaana ya yeh darna ke victim kahin padh likh ker kamyaab na ho jaae. Kuch log is dar se bhi is qism ki bandish lagwaate hain ke kahin victim unki apni aulad se zyada taraqqi na kar le. Ma’ashare mein badhti hui hasad aur khudgarzi logon ko is qism muqaable bazi  karne per uksaati hai.

Is qism ki bandish khas taur se zaheen bachon per lagwaai jaati hai jin ki taleem ke maidan mein achi kaar-kardagi dekh ker log jal ker un ke piche pad jate hain. Us ka nateeja yeh hota hai ke jo bacha zaheen aur padhne likhne ka shauqeen hota hai who achanak padhaai se bezaar ho jaata hai. Who padhne ke bajaae fuzool ke kaamon mein waqt zaaye karne lagta hai. Raaton ko jaag jag ker imtehaan ki tayyari karne wala taalib-e-ilm imtehan se pahle bhi padhaai se ghaafil rahne lagta hai

Zaahir hai key yeh baat waaldain ke liye fikr ka baais ban jaati hai. Ab yeh waaldain per munhasir karta hai ke who is surat e haal mein kya karte hain. Ho sakta hai ke who bache ko daant dapat ker padhne per aamadah karna chaahein. Lekin aise maamlon mein zor zabardasti se koi faeda nahin ho sakta hai kyunki victim khud padhne se nahin bhaag raha hota hai balki us ko jadu ke zariye aisa karna per majbur kiya jaraha hota hai. Jo bacha khud hi claas mein awwal aane ki koshish karta ho hamesha who jaanbujh ker apni taalim ki taraf se laaparwahi kyun dikhaayega?

Aise mein laazmi hai ke waaldain bache ko zimmedar thehraane ke bajae us ki asil pareshani ko samjhein. Agar bacha roohani ilaj se mehroom rah gaya to phir us ko qaabu mein laana bahut mushkil hai. Lehaaza kisi bhi ache bhale shakhs ke mizaaj mein achanak aai kisi tabdeeli ko dekh ker hairat zaahir karna hi kaafi nahin hai. Yeh baat samjhni bhi zaruri hoti hai ke kahin us tabdeeli ke piche kisi qism ke jadu ka hath to nahin hai.  


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3 comments:

ameen said...

Salam...Ma apni mother k baara me pouchna chahta hun ap k baare me ksi relative ne btaya tha...So unha kch kidneys aur allergy ki problems hain jo kaafi Ilaaj k baad bhi solve nai hu rhaa...Ap reply me bta di jiye k kaya tareeqa hai wazeefa lena k aur mazeed ilaaj ka...JazakALLAH

Anonymous said...

Dear Sir/ Mam,
Me ye janna chahti hu ki kya muth bs kisi ko marne ke lie bheji jati hai ya vashikaran ke lie bhi bheji jati hai kitne tarah ki muth hoti hai or hum kin kin use ke lie mut bhej skte hai.Please jaldi reply dijiye urgent hai..

Anonymous said...

Assalamwalaikum..
Sir meri wife ki tabiyat kafi time se kharab hai
Or dino din bigdti ja rhi h
Wo thik ni rehti
Or mentally physically bimar rehti hai
Uske bar bar mare logo ke or accident hone wale scene sapne me dikhate hai
Kya aap bata sakte ho uske esi kya dikkat hai or kis wajah se hai??