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KAAMON PER BANDISH

Assalam oalaikum,

Agar hum yeh samajhna chahein ke kis qism ki bandish victim ke liye zyada takleefde saabit ho sakti hai to yeh samajhna bahut mushkil hai. Har bandish apne aap mein ek museebat hoti hai. Lekin kuch aise maamle aise bhi hote hain jin mein victim ke sab kaamon per bandish lagaa di jaati hai. Is qism ki bandish auron ke muqaable mein zara penchida hoti ha kyunki us mein insan ki zindagi ke kai pahloo ulajh ke rah jaate hain aur woh jadu ke waje se bebas aur laachaar ho jaata hai. 
Kaamon per bandish ki waje se insan ke kaarobaari mamle, shadi byah ka maamla, tafreeh ka maamla, ghumne phirne ka maamla- sab thap pade rahte hain. Agar victim ko kisi choti si ashiya ki sakht zarurat hai to bhi us ko bahut lamba intezar karna padega. Yani jo cheez auron ko aasaani se dastyaab hai us ke liye victim ko kafi jaddo jahad karni pad sakti hai. Agar bandish shadeed qism ki lagaai gai ho to mumkin hai ke laakh koshishon ke baad bhi victim woh ashiya haasil na kar sake jis ki us ko zarurat ya khwaish ho. Is qism ki qadam qadam per aane waali rukaawaton ke waje se zindagi ka safar victim ke liye mushkil ho jaata hai aur victim mayusi mein dub jaata hai. Zaahir hai ke aise mein jab victim ko apna koi bhi kaam aasaani se banta hua nahin nazar aayega to woh mayusi ka shikaar ho jaega.
Yeh baat kafi afsosnaak hai ke victim ki is haalat ke piche us ki apni koi ghalti nahin hoti hai balki us ke kisi dushman ki chaalaaki hoti hai jo woh samajh nahin paata.
Is liye in maamlaat mein kisi qism ki bhi dheel victim ko nuqsaan pahuncha sakti hai bilkul waise hi jaise koi bimaar shakhs apne marz ka ilaaj karne ke bajaae us ko yunhi rahne de aur us ko naasur bana le.

Duaaon mein yaad rakhein
Amel Soname
amel_soname@yahoo.com

25 comments:

Kamaal said...

Assalam.Alaikum
Karo bari bandish hai
Nuqsan. Hota rahta hai
Sehat bhi kharab ho gai hai

Anonymous said...

Aoa sir, me aik gahreeb student hoon . Mujhe kala jado hova or jinnat tang kar rahe hai.

samra said...

Sir plz meri kuch help kara Mera husband ka talok mera sath buht kharb ha har wkt lrta ha or hamesha narz rhta ha or har wkt muj sa dor rehna pasnd krta ha muj na pasnd krta ha or muja sa bth b NHe krta ha or na Ak bth manta ha ap plz muja kuch bta de ma bht pareshan ho

iqra said...

Salam sir
Sir mery ik relative hain mjy pata lagwana hai k kya un p rishty ki bandiish karai gai hai .agar karai gai hai to is ka kya tor hoga .

Tabinda said...

Assalamalaikum. Mera name Tabinda hai ,India se hun. Main bahut pareshan hun . Meri love marriage 5yrs ki thi joki achi nahi rahi kyunki bahut bimar rehti thi main aur phir mere husband ne zabardasti mujhe pichle saal 1 talaq dedi. Main bahut roi aur manane ki koshish ki par woh nahi maane. Bahut aamilon ke paas gai sab ne kaha ki bahut buri bandish ya kala ilm kiya hua hai husband par aur paise maange par kuch nahi hua. Mere husband sab rishta khatam karke dubai chale gai..nafrat karte hain mujhse ..koi contact nahi..aaj mahine guzar gaye par kuch baatchit nahi.. main unse bahut mohabbat karti hun..aur unhise phirse nikah karna chahti hun.. dubai main unhain koi ladki pasand aagai hai..plz meri help kariye ..kya karun main ..main unhain kisi aurke sath nahi dekh sakti ..bataiye kuch ki agar bandish hai toh khatam hojaye aur mere husband mujhse phirse mohabbat karein aur mujhse nikah karein. .main bahut buri halat main hun..plz.bahut shukrguzar hongi aapki .Allah hafiz .

sahrish said...

Assalam o alikum!
ma sahrish hn. mari shahdi hoe the ar 3 months baad ma pregnanet hoge the per mjhy bleeding the ar DR.s ko dekhaya toh unko b nae pata chala k ma pregnant hon ar phir 1 month baad pata chala ka mjhy 1 month pregnancy the per mara baby tube mai tha ar phir treatment k bawajood mari tube phat ge. ar mara major operation hoa khair ab mari shahdi ko nine month ho gy hn ar operation ko 5 months hogy hn ab hum phir sy baby ki wish kr rhy hn bt darty hn k kahen phir sy wo masla na ho jahy...........
apsy puchna yah tha k mari jethani ka ny mary sth masly say pahly mjhy almost daily milk shake pelahy thy kahen mary sth masly mae unka koe hath toh nae...........
agr unho ny mjh per koe amal krwaya hoa ha toh mjhy usky tor k lya kia krna hoga??????? ma chahti hon k mari olad k hony mai jo b bundish ha wo sb khatam ho jahy.........
mjhy apky jawab ka intizar rhy ga plz reply soon

younas said...

asamuallakum sir my name younas m kofi bemar rata huw or kam be band hy pls chek kr k btain allah ap ko ajir dy ga

syeda said...

salam, sir , kia ap meri aik ilm hasil karnay main rehnumaee, madad kar saktay hain?
4 sal say main paraishan hon aur mujhay ye ilm hasil nahi ho paraha k main kis tarha batini ankh ya ruhani ankh k zariyay say apna mustaqbil dekh sakon? apnay anay walay halat jan aur dekh sakoon aur logon k khayalat jan sakoon ya apnay peeth peeechay jo sazish hui hay uskay baray main haqeeqat jan sakoon? kia ap meri rehnumaee kar saktay hain?
syeda

Anonymous said...

merai gher per bohat bandeshai ki ja rahi hain kalai ilim sa .main merai 2 bhae waldain sab gher mai esai perai hain jesai bemar hon.koi kam nae ker patai ager nokeri lag b jati hai to 10 ya 15 din sa ziada nae chalti .majboran chorni per jati hai .
jis amil k pass b gae wo yehi kehta hai koi dushman apko sab ko berbad kerna chahta hai hai please koi esa amil batien jo mai khud ker sako jis sa mai apnai gher ko keel don takai sarai bandishain tot jae or dobara gher mai koi kala jadu ka war na ker sakai please .reply as soon as you can because halat din badin bigertai ja rahai.

zubaida said...

Asslamualaikum
mera naam zubaida hai
Mrra msla ye hai ke meri shadi ho nahi paa rahi hai is wajah mere mummy bahot tention me hai mummy ko lagta hai kisine ghar pe ya mujhpe jadoo kiya hai plz aap mujhe batye ke sach me kisine humare ghar pe ya mujhpe jadoo kiya hai aur ghar me b bahot problems chal rahi hai pehle aisi problem nahi thi but abhi bahot problem ho rahi hai plz ise khatm karne ke liye mujhe koi wazifa ho to bataye plz mai apke reply ka wait karngi
Aur meri walida ka naam shabira nadaf hai aur shadi ke liye b koi wazifa ho to bataye

Anonymous said...

Aapse jinnat ke baare me kuch baat krni thi.. me bahot pareshan hu ustaad muqaddar sath nahi de rahe hai mere.. meri madad kijiye jazzak Allah

ayesha said...

salam,
mera masla ye hai k meri shadi ko 5 saal ho gye hain aor meri oalad nahin hy ,sary test clear hain.kai logon sy hisaab karwaya wo khty hain k apki bandish hue hai,mjy ap sy maloom karna hai k kia waqye aisa hai.mjy khawab main chipklian buhat nazar ati hain.ap bata sakty hain k asraat ka asar hy bandish hy ya kia waja hai.mera naam ayesha hai kindly jaldi reply kr dain.

ambreen said...

Assalam-u-Alikum!

aap ka article aik website sai mila hai.

Hamaray Rizq per kisi nai Kala Jadoo ker rakha hai. Kalay Jadoo kai muqamal torr ka koi hal batayain.

Shukriyah

saira said...

Asslam.o.alaikum qari sahb
Mera aik masla hy.. Mene masters kiya hua hy banking and finance main.. R allied bank sy internship ki hui hy.. Mager es internship sy farig huy mujhy do saal ho gy hain magr job nahi mil rahi.. Sifarish b hy sb kuch ok ho k end py reh jata hy.. Kya ap k pas es masly ka hal hy..?
Mera naam saira hy.. R mery sath bandish k kuch masly rishty k bd sy chal rahy hain.. Meri mangni k 6 mah bd meri miyan ki achi khasi job choot gai. Phir hmara nikah hua r rukhsati main rukawatain rahi sawa do sal bd rukhsati hu. Ab mery miyan shadi k bd apni job py hain but mery rasty band hain hr traf sy. .. Mery miyan shadi k bd aik mah hi pakistan rahy.. Wo mujh sy boht pyar krty hain. Magr aik nai nai shadi k bd jo pyar hota hy us mah asa kuch nahi tha..

saifullah said...

dear amel sonamal.aslamo aykum ap ka bhot shokria ap ny mujhy reply
kia ap ka bhot shokria.mera name saifullah hay aur main muzafrh gurrh ky city riz abd main rhta hown.age.25 mera
msla uh hay ky meri kamar main har wakat
dard rhta hay aur jis kam ly b koshes karta hown lazmi rokawat bum
jati hay kam naheen hota..main job ky ley try kar rha hown plz help me
meri job lag jay aur mery tamam mosebtain dor b ho jain koy amal bta
do ua wazifa dy do plz i wait u anser

nayyar said...

Hmari shadi ko 10 year ho gy hn na olad hy or job b theak nhi kbi ho jati hy kbi nhi hoti hr koi bndish btata hy hmain wazaif brain k yh bndish khtm ho

Imran Khan said...

Aapse contact kaise kar sakta hu kuchh problem ka solutions chahiye

asif said...

ASSLAM O ALIKUM,,
DEAR SIR,
mera name asif hai mera masla mere big brother k rozgaarka hai.
....
ye pechlay 2.5 years se jobless hain inka work experience 25 saal ka , bohat jaga par job k leye apply kia but kam nahe bana,
agr job milti b hai to 1,2 month bad koi na koi problem ban k job Chhut jati hai bohat logon se mil chukay hain bohat se taweez dhagay krwa leye lakin kisi se koi faida nahe huwa ap se request hai k plzzz koi hal btain or iska elaaj karen plzzz,
agr ap chahte hain k hum apko direct milen to plzz send me ur adress plzz

asma said...

Mera naam asma hai. Humaray halaat bahut kharab hai. Meray walid k retirement jay baad aesa lag raha hai jeasay hum sarak pay aa gay. Humaray paas alhamdullah sab kuch tha ab Allah kay naam kay siwa kuch nai hai. Bhaio ka karobar bhi band hai hum behno kay rishtay bhi nai ho rahai hai. Humay yakeen hai kay hum pay bandish aur kala jado hai. Maulana sahab meherbani ker k Humaray lie faal nikalay aur humay is ka qurani ilaj batain. Aur jado ka kaat karay Allah ap ko jazai khair atta farmae ameen. Meray walid ka naam muhammad suleman hai . Please please hmari madad kijie. Muje please jaldi reply karay. Thank you so much

fareed said...

Janab amel sahab assalam alaykum
Me kuch dino se pareshan hu kuch zahil log mere peeche lage hai mere uper kala jadoo karte rehte hai ap bataiye me unse kaise peecha chudao....

sonia said...

Assalam o alaikum sir..!
Maine apka ek blog dekha net per bandish ke bare main sir mere ghar main bht problems chal rahi hain. Job aur shadi ka b bht masla horaha hai ap plz check ker k btayen k kia waja hai. Mera name sonia hai aur date of birth 29.8.1990 hai. Main apke reply ka wait karoongi sir.

Nikkhat said...

Assalam walikum
Mera naam Nikkhat hai meri age 21sal me solapur Maharashtra se hu.
Meri shdi hai hone wali hai pat bahot problem arhi hmesh shdi ki date age ho jati aur Aisa lgta hai koi shdi na ho is liye koi Kuch problem Lana chats hai shyd to is ka koi upay hai koi problem na aye shdi me achhi se ho Jaye...
Plzz is jawab jarur Dena

sharif said...

Assalamalaikum,

I have some health issue with me, and some problem in house where i am staying,
my daughter is 6 year old, in her sleep she will scream and not having food properly , and help..

Mustafa said...

Sir, Asalkium, Allah ki zat see umed hai app kheret see hounghee. Amnen" Pandraa-15-Sall se parechahn houn, Malum karnepee bataya ke BANDISH HAIN? Me abhi takk amnii zindagii mee set nahi hoo saka, Oman geya 4 mahh mee wapis karachi aa geya, Apne kuch merii madad karenngee. Parechani or Pacehmanii(Chirmindagii) buhut hai mere junior Senior bungaye or mee? Parechann. Sukryaa. Mustafa

Ajim Mewati said...

Asslamualekum.hajarat mea ek electrical contecter hu or mera kaam 7month Se bandha hua hai dual Ki darkhast hai ajimuddin

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