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SHADI PER BANDISH

Assalam oalaikum
Aam taur per waaldain apni aulad ki jald se jald shadi karwa ker apni zimmedari se faarigh ho jana chahte hain. Islam mein nikah karna Sunnah hai jis se Islam mein us ki ehmiyat ka andaza lagaya ja sakta hai. Lekin waaldain ki fikr aur koshishon ke baawajud aise kai mamle saamne aate hain jahan ladkon aur ladkiyon ki shadi mein takheer hoti.
Shadi ki ehmiyat se sabhi waaqif hain. Shadi jinsi talluqat qayam karne ka jaez tareeqa bhi hai aur aulad paida karke apni zindagi mukammal karne ka bhi. Shadi ke zariye mard aur aurat ko ek dusre ka sath bhi mayassar hota hai aur apna ghar qaayam karne ki musarrat bhi haasil hoti hai. In sab baaton ke baawajud aise kai log hain jo shadi ke naam se bidakte hain. Bahut si ladkiyan ache payaam aane per bhi bilaawaje saaf inkaar kar deti hain. Kai ghair shadi shuda ladke daulatmand hone ke baawajud shadi karne mein dilchaspi nahin lete hain.
Agar in baaton per ghaur kiya jae to hame yeh samajh mein aega ki yeh sab waaqyaat ghair qudrati hain. Yani kisi ladki ka bilaawaje ache payaamon ko thukraana aur khushhaal khandaanon ke ladkon ka shadi se dur bhaagna ghair mantiqi hai. Koi bhi sahi dimaagh ka shakhs aisa nahin karega. Yeh masle is liye pesh aate hain ma’ashare mein kyunki aise beshumaar ladke aur ladkiyaan hain jin ke dushman un ki shadi per bandish lagwaa dete hain.
Shadi per bandish lagwaane ke kai wajuhaat ho sakte hain jaise ki dushmani, badle ki aag ya phir jaaedaad ki laalach. Aise kai log hain jinki shadi hone se auron ko nuqsan pahunchne ka khatra mehsus hone lagta hai. Misaal ki taur per agar do bhai hain jin mein se bade bhai ki shadi ho jaae to uski biwi ko apne dewar ki shadi se khatra mehsus ho sakta hai kyunki dewar ki aulad hone se jaaedaad bat jaaegi aur bade bhai ka hissa ghat jaega. Aise mein kai aurtein apne dewaron ki shadi per khamoshi se bandish lagwaa deti hain. Sab samajhte rahte hain ke un ka dewar khud hi shadi karna nahin chaahta hai lekin asliyat kuch aur hi hoti hai.
Is liye agar ladke ya ladkiyaan bilaawaje shadi se katraayein ya phir un ki shadi ki baat kahin bhi pakki na ho paae aur bar bar baat tut-ti rahe to aise maamlon ki roohani jaanch karwaani laazmi hoti hai. Aisa karne se dushman ki bhi shanaakht ho sakti hai, kyunki aksar koi behad qareebi aziz hota hai jo victim ko aziyat pahunchaane per tula hua hota hai.

Duaaon mein yaad rakhein
Amel Soname
amel_soname@yahoo.com

45 comments:

sarim said...

Asslam walaikum hazrat saheb meri bahen ki shaadi me bahot rokawat aa rahi hai please aap check kar lijie kahi koi bandish vagerra to nahi hai.

riffhat said...

sir mera name riffhat ha . mujhe ye pochna tha tha k jb hum koi taveez lekty han muhabbat k lea tu ( Alhubi falan abin falan aallhube falan abin falan ) tu is me lerky k name kider aata ha kce lekty han is ko

imran said...

Assalam.o.alaikum.
Muhtaram je.
Maen taqriban 7sal say try kar raha hoon lekin abhi tak koi job nahe
mili.ghar waloo ny meri shadi bhe kar de thi, ab meri 2 bachian bhe
hain.lekin maen aur mery ghar waly bahut pareshan hain keh abhi tak
koi job nahe mili aur jo kam bhe start karta hoon usi main nakam ho
jata hoon.khudara meri madad kejiay.Allah aap ko khush rakhy.
Aap ka khadim,

Anonymous said...

Salam sir mere Rishty nahi aty or shadi nahi hoti kia waja hy.

firdous said...

Mera nam firdous hy me divorced ho mere walid meri dosri shadi krna chahaty hey magar lakh koshish k bawajood Rishty nahi aty na shadi hoti hy aap mujhy is ki waja batay kia waja hy agar koi waja hey to is ka tor aap kijiye

faiza said...

mjhy apne or mere father k bare may janna hy.
WO Bohat bimaar hain.
karobar b band hogaya hy.
medical reports clear hain sari.
kiya ap kuch bata skty hain in k bare may.
or may b bimaar rehti Hn.
shadi b nai horahai hy.
rishty nai aaty.
?????

daulat said...

Assalamoalaikum mera naam daulat hai last year mujhe ek rishta aaya tha aur ghar valo ne Haa b kar diye the ladka b mujhe bahut pasand karta tha infact be intehaan pyar b karta tha ek saal me hum shaadi b karne vale the aur bahut khush b the pata nahi achanak bahut jhagde hone lage baat karna band hua milna kum hogaya iss dauraan meri ammi ka b intekaal hogaya lekin voh ladka nahi badla aur pehle voh aisa bilkul nahi tha pata nahi aisa sab kyu hua hai mai unse bahut pyar karti hu aur voh mujhse par hum saath nhi reh paa rahe please meri madat kijiye mujhe samajh nahi aa raha unko hua kya hai
aur hum shaadi ko leke bahut serious the fir achanak voh badal se gaye jaise kisi ne koi jadu kar diya ho ha nazar lag gayi hi

Please meri help kijiye

shagufta said...

aslam o alikum mera name shagufta hai .mari 3 betyan shadi k laiq hai mai unki shadi krna chahti o magar har bar bat shoro hoti e or sab kuch theak o rha hota hai k akhir ma ja k bat achanak hi khatam o jati e sab ka kahna hai k bandesh ha plz mjhy bandish khatam krny ka koi hal btayen jis se agey aisa na ho ....or jab b tor krny ki koshish ki jatey e jinho ne ye bandish krwai e un main se koi na koi serious bemar o jata e itna k jan mushkil se bachti e lakin rishta khatam o jata e plz koi hal btaen....shukriya,....

Anonymous said...

Sir j baat ya ha k mare sahadi ko takrebn 17 month ho gae ha or mare
wife apna ami abu k pas he rahte hamara jhagra ha un sy plz ap koi
help kr dain Allah K hukam sy ahar ap na dua ki to umead ha ma jald
kameyab ho jao ga

rizvan said...

Assalamualaiykum..
Humne ap k blog padhe amaliyat k.. jo bahot acche he.. allha ap ko uska badla jarur dege.. hum ap ko apni duwaome yad rakhege ap jese logo ko..

Bhai mene ap k kahi blog padhe..
Bhai me kala jadu ka sikar hu..
Ghar me bhi asrat he.
Bhai mene kahi bapu o k pas tawiz karaya but kuch farq padta nahi he..me padai karta tha.. garib hone ki wajah se jiyada pad nahi paya.. me awwal tha padai me.. but bhai fir mene job suru ki but bhai job k dusre hi din mera accident ho gya..aur hath tut gya.. operation huwa mera.. aaj 3 sal ho gye.. na job milti he na kuch kar pata hu.. na hi sadi kar paa raha hu.. n bhai pura body dukhta he subha se sam tak.. aakho k samne kale dhabbe ate he.. kharab think ate he.. mene es hisab se ek bar khudkusi ki but mar na hi paya... fir mene net pe ap k blog padhe .. jo bahot acche he..
Bhai last me ap hi ho mera shara...
Ap ko khuda ka wasta kuch kijiye..
Me ap k reply ka wait kar rha hu..

Allha ap ko do jaha me kamyabi ata faramaye.aamen.

Jazakallha khair..

nahida said...

Assalamwalaikum
Mega naam nahida hai.. Keri umar 28 years hai.. Keri shadi nahi horahi hai..plz mujhe batayi mujhe kya Karna chahiye.. Kya mujh per koi jadoo ya bandish ka asar hai..plz reply kijiye

Rabia said...

Asalamolaikum Sir main bht hi takleef aur aziat ka shikar please please meri help karain at least mujhy guide hi karain k mere saath kya kya masail hain mera naam Rabia hai meri shadi nahi horahi meri sab behno ki hogai hai n mujh say choti behn ki b ab jo hum nay pata karwaya k kyun koi rishta wapis nahi ata ya koi na koi rukawat ajati hai to pata laga bandish hai ksi nay kaha butt dala howa hai is pay yani mujh pay mainy pata nahi kya kya parha hai n tavez alag sadqa parhai aur b bht kch but koi farq nahi para recently mujhy qareeb raat k time aksar smoking ki smell ati thi itni severe k main saans nahi lay pati thi din k time b do teen baar ati thi smell phr kch din baad woh band hogai par ab kal raat ko zero bulb band hogaya room ka mainy theek kia phr chala but phr band hogaya us k baad na jala main usy theek karny ko uthi to mujhy deewar pay do saye dekhy mujhy apna wehm laga par koi movement nahi thi un main phr mainy lights b on off ki par woh saye waisy hi thy mainy ayat ulkursi aur maoztain parhy aur hasar kar lia phr b woh waisy hi thy phr kch dair baad mainy phr chck kiye woh gayib thy phr azano k time light chali gai to I saw phr wohi do saye thy phr mainy ami ko uthaya aur ami ko b dekhaya ami ko b nazar aye saye phr hum parhai karty rahay phr ahsta ahsta woh gayib hogaye please meri madad karain please mujhy shadi k liye ya rishty k liye jo b parhai ya wazeefa milta hai main kar hi nahi pati mujhy severe migraine hojata hai n neckline aur shoulder main pain hojata hai k main sab kch bhool jati hoon please reply me meri madad karain

samreen said...

assalam.o.alaikum main bohat pareshan hoon meri shadi nahi hoti hai main jis larke se mohabbat karti hoon wo bhi mujh se mohabbay karta tha aur shadi bhi karna chahta tha mager pata nahi 3 month se wo mujh se baat nahi kar rha hai koi wazifa batein kya karo mein

raziya said...

Mera Umar 31. Mera rishtha Nahi horaha hai. Kayi bhi javo jinn ka asar kehthe hai. Jo audio download apne Google me diye hai o download Nahi horaha hai.please us audio ko is no pe whatsppe me bejdeejiye.

ali said...

Asalamo alaikum hazarat mera naam ali h mai gotan nagaur rajasthan inadia s hoon...... mere ghar aur mere abbu k karobar ki bandish kar di h kisi ne..... Usne hume har chiz k liye mohtaz kar diya h.... Woh hume bhaghana chahta h jahan hum rehte h wahan s...... Plz aap iski kaat karein aur iska rasta batayein...... Bas ab aapse hi umeed h..... Aslamo alaikum hazarat.....

Anonymous said...

Meri age 31 ho chuki h.BT shadi nhi ho rhi.kbhi mughe log pasand nhi ate to kbhi un Ki trf se msla ho jata h.ap plz via Istikhara btaye k masla kya h .. Pta nhi kyu hm dono Ki bat nhi banti. Rishta tay nhi hota. Log inkara PR inkar kr rahe hain. Hm bht preshan h. Plz bandish Ka asan tor bhi btaye

Arfan said...

AslamoAlikum amel saab apka phone number kia hy. me ap sy baat karna chahta ho apny oper bandish ka toor karwany k ley

saba said...

Meri shadi nhi ho pa rahi hr jagah rishte ki bat chalti hai mgr ho nhi pati.ek do rishte ache hain istakhara bhi aya w aha bhi khi n bhi bat nhi bn parahi Mera name afshan zareen Mother name Tahira khatoon Plz send me your mobil number

Anonymous said...

Muhtram Aamel Sahib,

Maere dua hai kai maera Rub ap kou Apni amaan mein rukhaey, Khuda ki Kasam bohut sai amloun sai wasta purra sub lalchi, Pahlaey paisa baad mein salam. Ap wahid Amel hein jou kai Sukhi aur ba shura hein , Lalchi aur Bukheel bilkul nahi, Khuda ap ki lumbi Umer Kraey aur durjaat bulund kuraey. it ni urz kur doun mein free mein kaam laenay wala nahi houn. ap sai agar koi amal/ Wazifa liya maera kaam houa yani aus amal nai kaam kiya tou Junab ka huq junab kou pohunch Jiaey ga.

shabana said...

Molana sahab .assalam o alekum
Molana sahab mere Rishty aty hey magar kahi bat nahi banti shadi nahi hoti aap mujhy Istekhara kr k batay k kia waja hey koi jadu ya asar waghera to nahi jis ki waja sy shadi nahi hoti

khalda said...

Aoa me apni bati ki marrige ka liy parshan ho 2 years se kosish kar rehi hi bati na bsc hons kiy hai as kay rishty me rakawat aa rahi hai kabi log pasand nehi karty kabi humy pasand nehi ata agr baat ban bi jay to wo kuch time bad katam ho jati hai ap plz bety kay waja hai

tallal said...

Sir i need to know about
rishta band diya gaya haii
what is this and is this black magic and how does it work and how can we break this
Waiting for your reply sir

Shazia said...

Salam

Meta naam Shazia Hai. Meri umer 26 saal Hai. Kafi saalon se koshish k bawajood shadi nahi ho saki. Shadi tou door kabhi koi rishta bhi nahi aaya. Shakal o soorat ki bhi koi kami nahi. But ilaj Keraya magar faida na ho saka.
ab guzrishta kuch dinon se periods bhi band ho Gaye. Doctors k mutabiq main bilkul theek hoon. Bazahir koi beemari nahi. Woh tou mujhe koi medicine bhi nahi re rahi kyon k un k mutabiq koi beemari nahi.
please meri rehnumayi farmayein
shukriya

sidra said...

Aoa!
my name is sidra,
Meri age 28 years hy, aor abi tk rishta ni hua, ap plz mujhy koi wazifa btyein jis se jld iz jld shadi ho jaye, thanks
Plz zror rply kijye ga

nosheen said...

meira naam nosheen haii ..merii age kafii ho gaii haii shadii nahi ho rahii mere parents bohat pareshan haii mere liye kafii jago par gai ho sab kehty haii k bandiah haii parhaii b bohat ki haii aur abi b kar rahi ho Ap mera istakhara nikal kar bata sakty haii k mei kia kro k merii shadi ho jaye.
Ek larky ko last 6 year se pasand karti ho bohat koshsish ki k shadi ho jaye par nahi ho sakii phir ek k pas gaii us ne mujh se paise liye kafii zida..tu itna hua k woh rishta le aya ...aur rishta laye hue 4 months ho gaye haii us k parents nahi maan rahe aur woh kudh b ghiab hai matlab no contact ....Jo b larka mere kareeb ata haii kudh ba kudh bhag jata haii ...bohat pareshan ho smaj nahi ata kia kro ....mei us larky se shadii karna chahtii ho kuch batain mujhe
Mei intizar kro GI Ap k reply ka
Shukriya

zeeshan said...

Dear Sir,
main aap say aik sawal hai meri shadi nahi ho rahi hai jab kay main nay apni rishty darun say bhi baat ki lakin phely baat paki bad main inkaar kar dia us kay bad apni baradri say bahr say baat ki wahan pe bhi aesa hi howa hai kya majra hai kya aap bata sakty hain??????????????????????????????????????

farah said...

Aslam o Layqum. Mujhay koyee ameliorate batain kay mayree dua baitean hain. Ak ki umer 31 sal aur dusaree key 30 saal. Duo paree lekhy hain khush shacal bhee hain. Magar shadi nahin hoti. Bareey key divorce hogayee hai. Please mujhay koyee wazifa batayain kay Allah ke taraf say rehmet hoyay aur in key shadi an hoon

Anonymous said...

sir mera nam nazia h riste ate h par ghar tk nhi ate plz koi ilaz btaye

Anonymous said...

Salamalekum
Moulana sb meri bahen shabista naam unki shadi ni ho rhi h unki umr 35saal ho chuki h hm log kafi pareshan h unki shadi khin thahrti ni blk rishta milta h mgr hota ni jaldi koi hal batayen

rekha said...

Namaste amel sahab. Mere shadi nhi ho rahi hai.. pata nhi kya problem
hai ladke ghar tak nhi ate hai. Aur hi ladka passed ata hai to us ke
ghar wale na bolte hai.. hum ne ek ladka dekha hai no hamare rishte me
hai lekin uski maa na bol rahi hai o bhi hame pasand karta hai. Asia
kuch ki jiye I shadi ke liye man jaye ya aisa kuch upay karo ki hume
manpaand ladka mil jaye. Ya aisa taweez do ki hume bahot sare rishte
ghar tak ate.. plz help bahot pareshan hai aur koi sath bhi nhi De
raha hai.. Apka mobile no send kr do.. .

shakeela said...

mari age 23sal hae or mara abi tak rashta nahi ho raha log keh ta hae k mari bandash hae jis ki waja sa nahi ho raha.muja ek larka pasand hae or ma issi sa shadi karna chate ho phr muja nahi pata k wo muja pasand kar ta hae k nahi.plz ap muja kuch bata jis sa mari shadi ki bandash b khatm ho ja or jis ko ma pasand karte ho iss sa shadi b ho ja.plz help me

Anonymous said...

Aoa sir me aj kal bohat tention me rehta rat ko sota hn to asa lgta h k koi mujh se dur ja rha ho r me rat bhr so ni skta r trha trha k khyalat ate h shadi se phle kbhe asa ni hoa me sir boht prisan hn koi hal btaya

yasin said...

Assalam o allaiqum sir
Mera. Name. Yasin hai hi meri bari bahen ki shabi nahi ho parhi hair or me bhi bahot dino se pare San hu bar bar chakkar aana gussa aana or koi kam socho to nahi ho ta hai or ghar me zaghara ya paise ki kami or bahar walk se dosti ki vajaye dusmani hojati hai or karja barta jata hai Es liye mene kaE jagah dikhaya to muje kaha gayaki kisi rishte dar ne septic Elam(kala jadu) ghar ki bandish .karva ya hair to Esh ka koi Elaj ya tor hai aap ke pash to meri madda kare muje videsh Jana hai to jaha dikhavaya that unhone kaha ki ye kala jadu tumko videsh nahi Jane dega to him log garib hai or kiraye se rahete hai to meri madda kariye sir plish pliash ......sir .....rasta sujaye ...

mughal said...

salaam

sir aap se aik sawaal ha ke agar kisi nai mujh per jadu kia to us ka naam kaisay jaan saktai hain please aap bata dain yaan kuch amal aniat kar dain jis se pata chal jai ke kon ha

azar khan said...

Bhai plz mere help kro mere aik cousin hai js ne love ki shadi ki tai abi as ko kisi dosre shaks ne jadu kala ilam kar kai dimag palat dia hai to as ka hal bata sakta ap plz bilkul asan tarika jo as ko main control kr sakon

Anonymous said...

sir meri shadi ka masla hai

Farah Naz said...

Assalam o Alaikum
meri behan kisi ko pasand kerti thi mager mere waldien ko larka pasand nahi aya jis ki bina per unho ne inkar ker diya larke k waaldien bhi is rishte se khush nahi the mager dono inkar k baad bhi apni apni taruf se koshish kerte rahe is dorran meri behan k kayi rishte aye mager behan ne shadi kerne se saaf inkaar ker diya tha isiliye waaldien ne zoor nahi dala mager ghar ka mahool ek tanao ka shikar raha ab surat e haal ye hai ke ladka apne waldien ki marzi se shadi kerne k liye tayar hogaya hai or meri behan ne bhi waldien ko ladka dhoondne ke liye razamnadi de di hai magr ander se woh abhi bhi isi umeed per bethi hai k shadi usne us larke se kerni hai ab koi bhi rishta ata hai tou uske chehre se uska ghussa zahir hota hai jis ki bina per koi bhi haan nahi kerta mere waldien barey pareshan hien koi hal baatien

FAROOQ said...


Assalamoalaikum
Mere pas ek car hai.
Achi halat me hai. 2 saal se for sale hai.
Customer ate hai dekhte hai lekin kharidta koi b nhi.
Mere Dil ar Zehen me shukook o shubhat hai k kisi apne ne s per Bandis/\jadu kia hai jis ki wajeh se koi kharidta nhi.
barae karam koi acha hal wazeefa bataye. ar sath me dua b kejey. sakht mayoos huwa hon

JAZAK ALLAH FID DARAIN
FAROOQ

Anonymous said...

Meri shadi me bhut rukawat aa rhi h mujhe ghbarhat ho rhi h mai 21 saal ki hu 2 mhine me shadi hone wali h mgar mera dil bhut bechain h azeeb azeeb khyal aa rhe h pta kuziye sir mere p bndish h kyA dil kisi kaam me nhi LG rha h

mariya said...

Assalam alaikum
Mein ne aaj hi aap k mukhtalif jawbat dekhe tu mein ne socha k aap se rabta karon.. ho sakta hai aap ko Allah pak mere leeay waseela bana de.
meri bahen ki aur meri umar shadi layak ho gyi hai lekin abhi tak koi munasib rishta nai mila ...kai baar khwab me aata hai k mangni hote hote ruk jati hai.aisa lagta hai kisi ne jadoo kiya ho..plz aap is ke liye koi ilaj btaye..mere walid jadoo me nai mante isliye kahi bhi ilaj karane se rokte hai ....
Aur hamare yha aksar koi na koi bimar rahta hai ya to koi na koi taklif hoti hai ghr me...iske liye koi amal bataye...

samsul hassan said...

Assalamo alaiku g main samsulhassan meri umar 21saal hai main ek larki ko pasand karta hun unse shadi karna chahta hu mere perents ne waha mera rishta bhi le gai lekin kisi ne hone nhi diya aor abb uska rishta our kisi se hogya hai lekin main ab bhi ussi se shafi karna chahta hun main usko pasand karta hun so plz help me meri help kro ke meri shadi ussi se ho jye

Anonymous said...

Mere shadi me rukawat hy jo bhi rishta aata hy me unhy pasand to ate hun per phr koi jwab nahi ata.mene bohat sy wazeefy bhi ki per phir bhi koi kam nhi bana .rishty walon ko bolen to wo bhi jwab nhi deti.plz mjhy koi wazeefa baten takay mere shadi achi jaga hojai r bandish khtam hojaye me bohat preshan hun

Anonymous said...

Enter your comment...assalmwalikum mera masala a hai k meri shadi nhi ho rhi rishta kahi b pakka hone SE phle Tut jata hai mera naam Abeeda hai pleas wajh kya hogi iske piche batyiy mai bht pareshn hu..umar b kaafi ho chuki hai

nilofar perween said...

Assalam wa alikum.. mjhe sadi me prblms horhe hai meri sadi ki umar ho chuki hai waldaien rista k ly fikr mand hai rista aata v to psnd kr k jate hai pr wapis koi jwab ni aata aisa 3 4 saal se horhA hai plz hlppp

nilofar perween said...

Assalam wa alikum. .. mjhe meri sadi me prblm aarhi hai mjhe aksar rishte k ly log dekhne aate hai psnd v kr lete hai pr jb jate hai to kch na kch bol kr na kr dete hai. . Aisa 3 4 saal se ho rha hai.. plz hlp in sab se waldaien v preshan ho gye hai unhe fikr hai plz hlp

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