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JADU AUR BANDISH KA FARQ

Assalam oalaikum,
Pichli posts mein maine kala jadu ke maidaan mein aksar sune jaane wale lafz bandish ka mutlab bataya hai. Jadu aur bandish ke beech ka farq yeh hai ke har qism ka kala jadu bandish nahin hota hai lekin har qism ki bandish kala jadu hi hoti hai. Yani bandish kala jadu ki sirf ek qism hai. Kisi per bandish lagaane ke alaawa kala jadu karwane ke aur bhi saekdon maqaasid ho sakte hain, jaise ki kisi ko apne pyar mein deewana karna ya kisi ko badnaam karwaana. Lekin is blog mein hum kala jadu ke sirf us khaas qism ko waaze karienge jis ko bandish kahte hain.
Bandishon ki kai iqsam hoti hai hain kyunki haasid apne shikaar ki jis shae se bhi jal jaae us hi per woh bandish lagwaa sakta hai. Misaal ke taur per kisi ki khushiyon se jal ker us ki khushiyon per bandish lagwaana, kisi ko kaamyaab dekh ker uski kamyabi per bandish lagwaana ya kisi ko aage badhta dekh ker uski taraqqi per bandish lawaana. Bandishein baqaeda kisi sifli karne wale ko paise de ker ek khaas muddat tak ke liye lagwaai jati hain. Zaahir hai ke jitni moti raqm di jaegi jadugar victim per utne hi taweel arse tak ki bandish lagaaega. Koi koi maamla aisa bhi saamne aata hai amilon ke jis mein bahut sakht aur pencheeda qism ki bandish lagaai jati hai. Misaal ke taur per kisi shakhs ke ooper mukhtalif qism ki bandishein lagaa di jaati hain, jaise ke ek hi shakhs ki aamdani, shadi aur kamyabi per bandish lagaa di jaati hai. Aisa us surat mein hota hai jab us shakhs ke peeche koi bahut bada dushman pad gaya ho jo us ko barbaad kar dena chahta ho.   
Agar dushman victim per bandish lagwaa de aur victim is baat ko samajh na sake aur roohani ilaj na karwae to woh us bandish mein asani se jakada jata hai. Aisi surat- e haal- mein victim ki na sirf apne dushman ke saamne zillat aamez shikast hoti hai balki us ko poore ma’ashare mein bhi zillat ka saamna karna padta hai. Kyunki jo log victim ka masla nahin samajh paate hain woh victim per hi ungli uthaate hain aur victim ko hi apni pareshaaniyon ka zimmedar thehraaya jata hai haalanki victim ka koi qusoor nahin hota hai. Aise victims ko bandish ke waje se nuksan bhi uthaana padta hai aur ma’ashare mein tamasha banne ke waje se zeheni tanaao se bhi do chaar hona padta hai.
Is qism ke masaail se bachne ke liye yeh zaruri hai ke har shakhs bandish ki iqsam se waaqif ho kyunki ghaflat kisi ko bhi mehngi pad sakti hai. 
    
Duaaon mein yaad rakhein
Amel Soname
amel_soname@yahoo.com